November 21, 2005
5 TYPES OF GUYS WOMEN AVOIDFellas...I'm sure you've often wondered why you don't get that second date as often as you'd like and why the only woman using up your cell minutes is your mama.Well,you just might be one of the many types of men women avoid.Yes there are more than a few categories of men that we tend to run the hell away from when in their presence.Though the list is long,I will narrow it down to 5.
1. The Needy Guy
Mr.Needy will always bug the shit out of you to reassure him that all is well."Do you still like me?" "Why haven't you called me?" "I really really like you" are things he will say at least 3x a day.
Confidence and independence are very sexy traits in a man... insecurity and dependence are not. Most women look for a strong partner they can lean on. So if you are always leaning on her ... especially in the early stages of a relationship... she might doubt your ability to do this.
And since us women tend to come into relationships with our own insecurities, we don't want to deal with yours as well as our own.
I'm not saying don't share your feelings,fears,and insecurities with us,just wait a lil bit.Don't give us all of that shit so early,there will come a time when we'll want to know everything...we'll let you know sweetie.Till then...shut it up!
2. The Arguer
This man wants to take every word that comes out of your mouth and somehow make it into a fight."What do you mean you have to go to the bathroom?" "The sky is not blue,that's periwinkle bitch!" and other ridiculous shit are bound to jump out this man's mouth.He can turn a simple Red Lobster dinner into a huge debate on crabs vs shrimp...either way,it's the only fish he'll get that night(LOL..how crude was that?).
If you are this type of guy, you probably revert to debating because you are nervous or unsure of what to say.Relax.If you find that the date is getting annoyed and tense,calm down and ask her questions without you answering back...get to know her.Possibly think of some shit to say beforehand.
3. The Arrogant Guy
Is rude,an ego-maniac,concieted and patronizing.Sometimes to his date but often times to everyone else that he feels is "beneath" him.Often having great looks,body,dick or a job these men feel like they can treat people anyway they want to.
What Mr.Arrogant fails to realize is that even though he might not treat the woman like that on the date...she is watching him and assessing his personality based on how he treats those around him and if you're that asshole... get it together.
4. The Boring Guy
Also known as Mr.Predictable.Women don't like the Predictable Guy because they know exactly how he'll react to everything. He follows formulas and never wants to do anything differently. For example, he'd never surprise a woman by spontaneously taking her out for the night or throwing her down on the bed, covering her with diamonds and then spank her with the new winter faux fur belt by Dolce and Gabbana and making her orgasm as he pulls out his big long hard Gucci shoe box with a size 7 1/2 slingback with real pearl straps...oh my bad,is that just my fantasy?
Anyway fellas,women like a man that we don't know what to expect from him sometimes,that's where some of the "bad boy" attraction comes from.
So mix it up sometimes,especially in the beginning.And then you can fall back a little but then surprise us once in a while.
Last but not least...
5. The Cheap Bastard
Your first few dates should always be carefree; the words "saving" and "budget" shouldn't come up. If she spends the first date picturing a lifetime of penny-pinching with you, you're out sweets.
I'm not saying that you have to pay for everything but you should not make it obvious that the date has to be under $20.I being of wealthy descent always seem to date forgetful guys.They forget their wallets,they forget to chip in,and it's contageous because I forget to fuck em' or even call them again.
You don't need to spend a fortune to make a good impression, but you do need to make us feel like we're special. Flowers are a nice touch once in a while,jewels, a Barney's gift certificate or some beautiful stocks and bonds.